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TLDR: I got cheated on 2yrs into dating, only learning it half a year later, got blatantly lied to despite being the most caring, commited and loving person to my gf and Im objectively a good guy (Athlete, educated, look good and know how to make money). Now the pain from betrayal is so immense I want to kms
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I was depressed since 16 yo. Developed some mental health problems inclduing unresolved trauma. Then I found a girl at school that I quickly fell in love with - we started dating after 1 month of talking. We experienced many things for the very first time together and have so many memories. We uplifted each other all the time and committed 100%. It's fair to say Im well-educated, Im jacked (compete in powerlifting), know how to make money, care about my appearance so I dress nicely and follow a healthcare routine. However, Im a dark empath, it means I have such personality traits as machiavellianism, psychopathy, and narcissism, as well as being able to understand and analyze emotions of others extremely precisely. It doesn't necessarily mean Im evil - I was never a "bad guy" and have always wished the very best to my friends and family and I would give my life for them without hesitation, but being that kind of person gave me an opportunity to see through people, recognize patterns in their behaviour and being able to copy or mimic them, blend in any group of people or make anyone trust me, as well as being able to tell when Im being lied to. Also being ready to hurt people who are a direct threat. Thats why I engaged in few fights in my life, in all of them I wasn't the initiator and my (or my loved one's) life was literally on the line so I had no other choice. I was serious about our relationship with that girl, she was gorgeous and I have always been jealous, but never without a reason. We both were, to be fair, and I never even thought of cheating or anything like that - I knew that I will never meet anyone better than her. For 2 years everything was great, excellent, perfect, I was the happiest man alive, forgetting about that mental health issues and just living my life. At some point I realized something was off. For the first time ever I doubted my partner. I asked directly if I was the only man in her life several times and she confirmed I was - but I knew that it wasn't fully true. I couldn't believe myself when I heard that blatant lie. I watched her behaviour change over the course of several months, noticing weird text messages pop up on her phone from time to time and feeling lack of affection and trust from her for no apparent reason - I treated her like a princess all along - gifts, sincere words of comfort, flowers, surprises, jewelry, commitment. A month ago I decided that I will be paranoid till the end of my life if I dont't let myself know what was actually going on. Long story short, I decided to go through her phone at night when I was at her place and learned what was happening. She had a romance with some older guy from work this winter simply because he had a car and invited her to an expensive restaurant and at that time she "didn't feel I loved her as much as I did" (I know I did and I proved it on numerous occasions). They kissed but at least things didn't get past it. Then they stopped talking because "he was just a manipulator". But in the beginning she was really into him. At some point she went to a night club without me even knowing (she never attended such places before), and some guy blocked the exit for her and her friend in a joking manner ("nice guy" in his true colors) and made them exchange phone numbers. And she indeed gave him the number. I felt devastated and completely crushed reading all that shit realising how my girl was basically dominated by others and she enjoyed it. I woke up in the middle of the night and asked to tell me who those contacts in her phone were - she lied yet again. I told her I knew the truth, and she realised that I have seen literally everything. She started crying and tried blaming me for going through her phone, because she was "afraid of my reaction" because everyone knows Im not the kind of guy to mess with, but I am not clinically insane after all and I wouldn't kill a person because I know consequences for me and my family. After that she played the victim card, still I was really ready to forgive her and to continue our relationship (considering how great things were before that and that she really meant the world to me), but after 2 weeks of discussion I realised it was kind of like talking to a wall and decided to end the relationship because she just didn't have the guts to do it and was basically too ashamed to look me in the eyes after all I did for her. It's been a month and I can't stop thinking about the fact that I really have been betrayed like a miserable critter and have suffered every second of my life since then. Constant intrusive thoughts, flashbacks to those text messaged I've seen. What also kills me is that she doesn't feel that way at all. She is happy now that she no longer has to carry that burden and she can get any guy she wants whereas I, as a guy, have to work my ass of to gain recognition from anyone. I c*t myself daily and find ways to self-destruct(never tried that but it really helps me and I can't stop) and there also hasn't been a day when I didn't think of actually killing myself. I have lost faith in humanity, Im broken and the idea of my future girl (which now I doubt I'll find ever) having any guy friend, let alone ANY contact with opposite sex makes me see red. I know it is not normal and I do not want to abuse anyone, but at this point I can no longer think rationally, Im extremely desperate and can not see myself with anyone who isn't literally obsessed with me to exclude any possibility of them cheating. Once again I know it isn't normal but what happened to me was a massive trauma I guess. I tried going to therapy this week because the amount of pain I carry is enormous but in the middle of our session my therapist (A young woman in her.. maybe twenties?)started crying and called me manipulative and abusive, we had to end the session and all this absurd sequence of events made me lose any hope and faith I had left and I see no other way to deal with pain except for suicide before I seriously hurt anyone. Thank you everyone who took the time to actually read it and sorry for any possible mistakes, english isn't my first language. Peace everyone!

I'm 17, but for as long as I can remember my left arm (primarily around the shoulder) has always been a little tensed up. It doesn't matter what my posture is; it doesn't matter if I'm playing piano, doing something else, or literally nothing at all; it doesn't matter if I'm sitting, standing, or lying down, regardless of what I do I physically can't loosen my left arm. Now, it hadn't had much of an effect on my playing for some time, but the better I've become the more it presents itself as a detriment.
A while back I began working on Scarlatti's k29, and while learning it's been fun, it's really exposed the limitations of my physical abilities. At this point I know the notes better than the back of my hand, and I know what I'm trying to accomplish in any given section, but my left arm just doesn't fucking do what I want it to and it's driving me insane (that being said my performance definitely wouldn't be great, but I'd be way more confident in it). In many passages it feels damn near impossible to play adequately in sync, a problem that is very prevalent in the descending thirds sections (often starting out fine with my left hand falling apart by the end). I know for a fact that if my left arm felt like my right my performance (and even ability to learn new repertoire) would improve substantially, but I just don't know what to do anymore. I've been at this piece for so long, and the last few things I'm struggling with just haven't been getting much better, and being able to diagnose the problem without knowing what to do about it is kinda starting to fuck with me. If you guys know how I might be able to fix this (no matter how drastic the measure is, I'm open to considering all options; I've put too much of my teenage life into this for something so innocuous to halt my progress), or if I just have to learn how to deal with it, let me know.
Also I do apologize if this isn't the right sub, but I figured pianists would be more likely to get help for something like this, and by extension more likely to know what I can do.
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So my job is absolute hell and I dread going in everyday, counting down the minutes until I’m free to go home and relax. I’m sick of being yelled at, berated, and talked to like I’m stupid by awful human beings. The only reason I’m staying is to show on my resume that I have work experience and obviously I need to save up money. But there are days where I don’t know how much longer I can hang on. I’m starting therapy soon and will definitely talk to her about this because some days I feel like I’m being eaten alive by the job and the people I have to deal with. It’s draining. I’ve only worked this job for 4 months, and I’m already sick of it. I want to at least do the job for a year to a year and a half to show the work experience, but I honestly don’t know if I’ll make it that long. Also, we get paid awful for the bullshit we have to deal with on a daily basis. There are many days where I cry after work because it’s just too much. What also sucks is that I love summer and am unable to enjoy it because I’m stuck inside an office desk with no windows🙁 Unfortunately, I don’t have any other alternatives because I need the money and want the work experience on my resume. I just needed to vent and hope others have shared my experience. Any tips or advice is very much appreciated!! ❤️ (for reference, I am 22 years old, about to turn 23)

Hi there,
I'm a 27-year-old guy from just outside Orlando, Florida and I am seeking a real connection with a dominant woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it. Feel free to reach out if this stands out to you, I'd love to talk. I live alone and have been described by close friends as silly and compassionate, inclusion is one of the most important things in my life. I'm seeking a female-led relationship, the type of dynamic I am looking for is a life partner who is firmly in control, to what extent we can determine what works best for us. I would be more than happy to be your life partner who defers to you on the bigger decisions though I would love for you to have me in mind when making them. I recognize you are a real person so a constant dynamic isn't always realistic.
About me:
Basic stuff: I work a full-time job but also have a side hustle writing, I promise this is not nearly as exciting as it sounds but it is an increasingly lucrative thing that I'm looking to make my full-time focus sooner than later, still figuring out when sooner is though. I'm 5'7, about 140 lbs, here's a recent picture of me for reference. And as I recognize this is important to some people, I do not drive, my eyesight is very poor and as a result, I cannot legally drive, this, however, does not stop me from living an entirely independent life, most people don't actually know/can't tell until I tell them that I cannot drive.
Personal Interests: I love hanging out with friends and doing who knows what, I will admit that I am a bit of a homebody but my greatest joys in life are typically with other people, doing pretty much whatever. I am sober as in I do not drink or smoke but totally cool if you do as long as it is responsibly. I love going to thrift stores, eating great food, and really just exploring. I'm pretty nerdy in that I would say my single favorite thing to do is learn be that via YouTube videos, Reading or just getting out and trying something new, Psychology however is what interests me most and I could spend hours and hours talking about the weird ways people act and why. I also really enjoy movies and would love to know your favorite, I love anything funny or scary, and the Shrek series has a special place in my heart. Also love staying active, recently got back into going to the gym and an avid NBA followefan.
Fun Stuff
I am relatively inexperienced but I am someone who learns quickly and has done a thorough amount of research, enough that I feel that I can confidently serve a woman, the biggest part of all of this to me is the sense of belonging, the feeling of being owned by someone who wants the best for me and thus inspires me to want to be the best possible version of myself for them. I do not take this role lightly and it would be a privilege to be yours.
The Person I'm looking for:
I'm looking for a dominant woman either In Orlando or located somewhere in North America with the intention of this becoming an in person thing, I'm very open to relocating for the right situation and while I do like Orlando there isn't anything keeping me here. My ideal partner would be someone emotionally intelligent and capable of communicating in a healthy, consistent way, nothing excites me more than knowing exactly where I stand with you, for better or worse. (So I can improve to better serve.) Body type is unimportant to me as all women are beautiful in their own unique ways, as long as you take care of yourself you are my type. Age and your experience level are mostly unimportant to me as long as you're 20+ and know what it is you're looking for. Just to reiterate the connection is what is most important to me, knowing that someone has my best interest at heart and I have theirs, knowing that while I am still very much a person with real feelings but I want to be yours, completely.
Thank you for taking the time to check this out, I look forward to speaking to you soon.

https://startplaying.games/adventure/cli9ft9k5000q08kx6jg61z9a
Outlaws of Alkenstar
In "Outlaws of Alkenstar", players assume the roles of renegade outlaws united under the banner of a shared grudge. To exact revenge on the despicable mogul who destroyed their lives, the party must hotfoot around the grime-caked streets of Alkenstar, the City of Smog. As they explore a vast city of clockwork menaces and explosive drama, the party will take down brass-clad constructs, blast through steel vaults, and harness their reputations as hardened rebels to save the day.
These ragtag desperados will get their hands dirty in the oil-slicked alleyways and whisky-soaked saloons of Alkenstar, the City of Smog. To achieve their revenge, these renegades must steal from the rich, take down crooked shieldmarshals, and aid a mysterious gunslinging patron. In a city where the clockwork guards are literally as tough as brass, these antiheroes will need true grit to dole out overdue justice.
"Outlaws" is an Pathfinder Second Edition Adventure Path that carries the player characters from Level 1 up to Level 11 over the course of three volumes of high-stakes, high-action, and quite literally high-explosive clockwork adventures.
System/Platform: Pathfinder Second Edition, with variant rules. Foundry for VTT, Discord for voice.
Player Count: 3/6 seats currently filled.:chair:
Schedule: , and every week there-after at the same time. 3-4 hour session duration.
Style: Adaptable to players. As a GM, I lean heavily towards high-RP, but can also accommodate a group of cowboys that just want to shoot things up.
Price: $20 per player, per session. Discounted group rates, just DM me.
Come join me for some shootin', tootin', high-falutin' clockwork fantasy wild west adventures in the city of Alkenstar!

So my gf is curious about her sexuality and doesn’t think it’s fair to be in a relationship with me while she’s thinking about other women. She promises to come back once she’s figured it out but I don’t know how to feel about any of this. Is it even fair to ask someone to wait for you while you fuck someone else? I’m just so confused and hurt right now. I gave her everything I could, I’m honestly giving up on life right now and I don’t really have many of my own friends that I can talk to about this. Any advice, suggestions, or even some sympathy would be greatly appreciated right now.

What's going on?
A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making a great many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
On May 31, 2023, Reddit announced they were raising the price to make calls to their API from being free to a level that will kill every third party app on Reddit, from Apollo to Reddit is Fun to Narwhal to BaconReader.
Even if you're not a mobile user and don't use any of those apps, this is a step toward killing other ways of customizing Reddit, such as Reddit Enhancement Suite or the use of the old.reddit.com desktop interface .
This isn't only a problem on the user level: many subreddit moderators depend on tools only available outside the official app to keep their communities on-topic and spam-free.
What's the plan?
On June 12th, many subreddits will be going dark to protest this policy. Some will return after 48 hours: others will go away permanently unless the issue is adequately addressed, since many moderators aren't able to put in the work they do with the poor tools available through the official app. This isn't something any of us do lightly: we do what we do because we love Reddit, and we truly believe this change will make it impossible to keep doing what we love.
The two-day blackout isn't the goal, and it isn't the end. Should things reach the 14th with no sign of Reddit choosing to fix what they've broken, we'll use the community and buzz we've built between then and now as a tool for further action.
What can you do?

1. Complain. Message the mods of reddit.com, who are the admins of the site: message reddit: submit a support request: comment in relevant threads on reddit, such as this one, leave a negative review on their official iOS or Android app- and sign your username in support to this post.
2. Spread the word. Rabble-rouse on related subreddits. Meme it up, make it spicy. Bitch about it to your cat. Suggest anyone you know who moderates a subreddit join us at our sister sub at ModCoord - but please don't pester mods you don't know by simply spamming their modmail.
3. Boycott and spread the word...to Reddit's competition! Stay off Reddit entirely on June 12th through the 13th- instead, take to your favorite non-Reddit platform of choice and make some noise in support!
4. Don't be a jerk. As upsetting this may be, threats, profanity and vandalism will be worse than useless in getting people on our side. Please make every effort to be as restrained, polite, reasonable and law-abiding as possible.

See here for the original Apple thread on this issue.

Now, I want to emphasize that I absolutely LOVE the new update, I 100% believe it got way more hate than it actually deserved and that Creative Spaces are a much bigger deal than some people realizes.
However, the main reason why so many people got the bad reactions that they had after the Headline... Was due to Sega's abysmal communication skills and their unwillingness to go into details.
And keep in mind, that's not just a one off thing either... Multiple times have we seen this type of poor communication happen with Sega, even as far back in the old Base PSO2 days were we seeing this same lackluster communication format. It just didn't feel as bad at the time because for most of us, the game already had a lot of content to go through, so we simply never felt starved for content.
And you wanna know what's the saddest part of it all? It likely won't ever get fixed...
Why won't it ever get fixed you ask? Simple... This type of short-term, vague communication strategy is not something unique to Sega. It is, in fact, deeply rooted in japanese business culture as a whole. It's just how most of them do it, and most companies are unwilling to change it due to sheer stubborness
So... What can we realistically do then? Well... to be completely honest, not much. The only real thing we can do is:

1. Hope that the Japanese playerbase gets as pissed off as we are and seize the opportunity (Which doesn't happen often)
2. Learn to accept that the format is the way it is and rely on Headline+ to get the missing details

So yeah... that's the situation we are in communication-wise, and considering that this has been the case since 2012... Yeah, better accept it rather than malding over it all the time.

It’s 3:08AM. Your soft breaths are the lullaby to soothe my racing heart. Your hand is on my low back. I don’t mind because I know you feel safe holding my body. Even with one hand. I talked you to sleep. Ran my hands through your curls and across your face til your eyelids fell and hours passed and I was just talking to myself. I’m tired but you leave tomorrow. I need to feel every second every breath every glance at your body against mine. My headphones sing sad songs but all I feel is the peace of being next to you.
I hate when you walk away. When the door closes. When I need music to fall asleep because I miss the melody of your soft sweet snores. One day you won’t leave. Maybe rather you find you can’t because you’re as wrapped up in me as I am with you.
You like my crazy. When I whisper you my secrets in your sleep and all the things I’m too scared to say because Cole in sixth sense said Bruce Willis should talk to his wife in her sleep. Wow. How do you love that crazy? You love the sound of my voice and pacing thoughts watching adoringly as I rant for the 38th time about history and how the past can change the world. Meanwhile with every word that comes out of my mouth is followed by intrusive thoughts. While my brain screams “she’s bored shut up” you’re mentally taking notes and googling documentaries on the Cold War.
What I’m really trying to say. Rather tragically poetically manic at 3:08AM is I’m so grateful, obsessed, connected to, and stuck on you. Never stop loving me. You have my soul body heart mind whatever you want it’s already yours. It’s been yours. I’ll always be yours.

So as the title says, I'm downloading a playlist of mine on YouTube which is about 600 videos, but around the 90th video it states that the "nsig extraction failed" and this is severally decreasing my download speeds from mbs to kiBs which sucks. First how do I get PhantomJS since the link the code line told me leads to a 404 and second, since it slowed down around the 90th video on the playlist, what do I write to allow yt-dlp to start at that mark instead of at the beginning again, or do I have to just remove the videos already downloaded?

I’m just really worried and idk how to stop overthinking. I’m an emotional person especially when it comes to interacting with others I struggle to not feel like an outsider or that I’m on the outside looking in. It’s not my group members fault that I accidentally didn’t join the first meeting.
It wasn’t my intention not to I had been waiting for a text that they started and I didn’t see the invite in my main email apparently it was in another inbox. Ik it’s my fault I should’ve looked harder for it. Then I could’ve gone on teams but I decided to wait for their text that they were online. That wasn’t smart because they just got on teams without texting the group chat they did. Well someone had said they were going to create the group in a second idk why I assumed she’d say the group was made afterwards.
So now I had asked for an update and stated I’d like to help in anyway I could. She told me what they discussed but didn’t really respond to how I could contribute. I’m just confused on what part I could help out with and how to even help, one person filled out the worksheet we were given so checkpoint one is pretty much finished. They discussed what the one person filled out and decided to edit it more. I asked when they had planned on tweaking it and have yet to receive a response.
It’s just a lot of slow replies Ik they’re working but I guess I should also work on my anxiety. 😅sorry to keep posting abt it but I tend to worry/overthink about small stuff until it festers.

My loans were forgiven last year and I am realizing how easy it all went now that I am trying to help my sister with her PSLF request. I had 1 federal employer covering my full 10 years, she has multiple ones, one of which doesn’t even exist anymore.
BLUF - Mohela keeps canceling requests for employment certification without giving her credit or explanation
She has 15 payments from 11/2011 - 1/2013 that are marked as Eligible but “Employment Not Certified”
She has submitted certification 3 times to Mohela and all 3 times they simply change to canceled after a few months with no explanation.
Here is where it gets odd though — if I look under the Employment tab in her Mohela account it shows 11 Employment periods, and the first one is the submitted 8/2011 - 7/2013 period that covers the missing 15 payments.
To me that means Mohela verified her employment but didn’t do the second step of re-evaluating the eligible payments.
Anybody experience something similar? Any advise?

Hi everyone,
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I've been following this subreddit since I got charged back in January. First of all, love the support on here, helped me a lot through the tough times/over thinking nights.
My backstory summed up is I got pulled over night of Jan 5th, got arrested and charged with DWI/DUI, Refusal to breathalyze/blood draw, and crossing over the yellow line. I went to Rehab nearby where I lived, accumulated 42+ hours of community service, and enrolled into the MADD panel (definitely recommend). Went to court on June 6th, 2023 and ended up making a plea bargain with the prosecutors. Got the Refusal and crossing double yellow lines dropped but plead guilty to the DUI. 250+ court fees, enrollment into VASAP, restricted license for 12 months with interlock for 6 months. No jail time.
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Got my interlock installed today and tomorrow will be calling around insurances for my DUI.
Just wanted to share my story and let y'all know you're not alone. I've had many nights of crying, feelings of guilt/shame, and got put onto anxiety meds. I thank god I didn't kill anyone or myself. You aren't alone! It doesn't feel like it now but it gets better! Cheers my friends.

I want HRT, I won't ever be able to afford more than 1 therapy session The plan: 1- "I have known ever since early 2018 that I was trans" 2- "the need to be a girl grows constantly, I think about medically transitioning every HOUR" 3- "I have done extensive research on the effects and benefits of estrogen, citing scholarly sources AND first-hand experience from my peers" 4- "All of these statements are entirely true and if I don't get a prescription for feminizing HRT, I will never be who I want to be" 5- "much of my male body really bothers me, especially the inability to cry when needed, my appearance, and the severely understimulating sexual aspect"
Saying all 5 of these statements in order is basically my only hope, because i only have one chance.. if it fails, I'm gonna be stuck like this forever
If anyone has suggestions on how to improve my plan, please speak

Needs. To be in 3 significant figures

Just woke up from those dreams where you meet someone and you fall a little bit in love.
The dream started in this communal showebathroom(?) It looked like those floor to ceiling tiled liminal spaces pictures. Tiles were white and the showers were spaced out with no dividers.
A girl approaches and spoke to me like how a close friend would. She smiled and lend me to shower. I know I looked away to give her privacy as she did and I was abit flustered with the entire situation. (For context I'm bisexual✌️)
I was wearing my rainbow swimsuit for some reason and she laughed and told me to be more comfortable around her. Because it's just her.
The dream changes to a roadtrip. I was in the backseat of a car and with a group of friends. I don't recognize the group except for the girl from earlier. She was wearing glasses now. Those thin rimmed one like reading glasses. We were sitting beside each other looking at this weird house we were passing by.
There were no surrounding houses. We looked like we were driving around a subdivision so a bunch of square open lots with cut down grass.
This house was very modern looking. The entire 2nd floor was made out of glass. You can clearly see the house's interior. The second floor was a bedroom. Two large beds on opposite side of the room. You can see the people inside too. The family entering the room to check out our car driving by as well.
I pointed and made fun of the house of course. Saying what a dumb design choice that was.
The dream then shifts where the friend group and I were inside the glass house. Talking to the family and they were very nice. Welcomed us in and touring us inside the house.
From the inside the house was vast. Abit of a safety concern too. There were railess lifts that connected the ground floor to the upper rooms. It was designed in a very modern way too. Full of white furniture with the occasional red, brown or grey. Like a dream, it didn't make sense on how people were to navigate the inside of this house. Little balconies connected rooms and short hallways.
The family of the glass house hosted a little party for our group. We we're in a dinning room. The family consisted of a father, mother and 2 kids. A teenage boy and girl.
Glasses girl and I had fun drinking and eating. Listening to the parents go on about interior design and architecture even if the house didn't make any sense. She was very into the conversation too. Very passionate about planning and design. And I can't help but feel a little crush forming haha but alas this dreams is ending.
The father was standing up, about to do a very cliche toast. Both not listening, Glasses girl looked to me as asked something along the lines of "I dare you to kiss me" and I responded back with "Thats not much of a challenge."
She then proceeded to get the hot sauce from the dinner table and teased back to kiss me with "hot sauce lips" It was all playful banter and I was y'know infatuated with this pretty girl ugh.
The feel of the dream changes abit. Like I realized that it was a dream or that I was about to wake up. The dining room was a mess. Post party where the decorations are half hung and plates are left for tomorrow's clean up.
Glasses girl and I were sitting on the floor now with our backs resting against a wall. Her lips were red like she did attempt to put hot sauce on it and was abit swollen because of the spice haha I was leaning my head on her shoulder I she apologized for having to go now. I told her not to worry and how I how much fun it was to have met her.
And then I woke up feeling that bittersweet loss. Haaa I do have a sort of personal interpretation of this dream. Able to connect it with real life stuff.
Note: Please don't feed my dream to an AI Dream Interpreter Bot.

i just need to rant to people who understand my pain. i work at a Marshalls. i’m getting close to my breaking point. i’m quitting after i get back from my vacation in july. there are so many things i can say about how they run this place. i’ll list a few.

1. GM flirting with minor coworkers. he gives fake tasks to do while he flirts with minors. EX : a bottle from beauty broke. HE swept it up… afterwards he brings me the lid with broken glass and tells me to find the bottle that the customer broke…. EVEN THOUGH HE JUST SWEPT UP the bottle… I tried to tell him but he just wanted me to leave so he could flirt. Once i told him i couldn’t “find” the bottle i went back over to where he swept and there were still HUGE chunks of glass in plain sight.
   
2. barely getting a break and it’s never when it’s scheduled because they don’t staff enough people to cover while you go on break. you will be calling it asking for your break for WELL over an hour of what it was scheduled to be.
   
3. they changed my availability without telling me. i never worked tuesdays because i am unavailable and then all of a sudden the past 3 weeks they scheduled me in tuesday’s.
   
4. Nighttime MOD forcing regular workers to follow people who are stealing because we don’t have LP most nights.
   
5. we haven’t had a cleaner in MONTHS and the store is disgusting. floors sticky and all kinds of mess.
   
6. managers and coworkers referring to a transgender coworker as their wrong pronouns even after being corrected.
   
7. THEY DO NOT TRAIN ANYONE!!! they hire teenagers, don’t train them and then force them to do their job alone which makes the regular trained workers job so much harder because you’re always cleaning up their mistakes and get blamed for it.
   
8. getting blamed for other peoples mistakes. someone failed the fitting room audit while i WASNT on shift. they came to tell me and yell at me for all the things they missed when nobody has ever told me i wasn’t doing a good job.
   

there’s plenty more but those are the most recent ones. i have a vacation at the end of june and once i get back i am applying for new jobs and leaving ASAP!!!!!!!

Hello to You all having the same problem like me - so an awful water retention in facial region with every use of minoxidil.
Firstly no, you are not weird - it really may happen. It is though truly a small minority of people who will ever experience that problem. I have seen that it is probably about 4-5% of all minoxidil users in total, probably even less… and those are generally people that for some reason also tend to be otherwise hyper-responders to minoxidil - and get awful ton of new hairs looking better than getting hair transplant. Of course there are hyper-responders to minoxidil who will not get any side effects from it - especially not that awful moon face. Those are the most lucky ones of all.
So first short story - I have been using minoxidil for about 5 years now - in many different forms. Firstly with pg, then not alcohol based minoxidil topical solution.. and even though it helped my hair loss a ton… it made me look chubby …. Like really chubby … always just after about 4-5 days of using it. No matter how much did I use, no matter if it was one time a day or one time every three days. I have highly visible six-pack, I am athletic, my bmi is closer to underweight than anything else, I am 28 years old, I have always had highly visible cheekbones and jawline… never had double chin - the farthest from that as you can be. I hop on minoxidil topical or minoxidil oral and my face features … are gone - like I have got 35 kg more than I have in real life - but just on the face, even when I take it orally as a pill. Whenever I cease to use minoxidil - those effects are gone almost as immediately as they appeared. Two weeks I am back to my normal face - the weight does not change at all. I come back to popping minox pill or using topical solution - 4-5 days - hello back face of someone weighting 35 kg more… The extent to which it is visible and noticeable for everybody else - is just comical! And no I don’t have allergic reaction of some kind, I have currently been using minox for years without any other side effect.
I have this water retention with even as low dosages as 0.25mg pills, 1/4 of one small dosage for hair. Using diuretics in insane amounts - natural or those only with receipt from doctor - gives literally nothing even when I am dehydrated otherwise - it does not change my puffy face on minox. Cutting on sodium, eating the highest amounts of potassium and magnesium gives literally nothing. It is super weird shit.
And yet I found something super weird to counter this effect of minox - maybe it will help someone else.
Or maybe someone will find out what is in Modafinil that works like that and helps with this minox water retention or whatever it is.
I have No idea why or how… but after using a ton of different drugs, drug classes, diuretics… and after year of experiments … there is one drug that seems to make 80% of minoxidil water retention go away. Just like that.
Modafinil - especially Armodafinil - Waklert. It works for about 14 hours - and if taken daily then no puffy face at all. No idea why… most people seem to report more problems with water retention and skin due to it causing histamine secretion… and yet for me it just works to make water retention minimal. Maybe also generally it is known for getting you dehydrated … but that is not that - it has to do something to histamine levels. There was also some comments of people on Modafinil forums that it causes them also to have more visible jawline, cut and more visible bone features of the face.
Weird? Yes. Definitely. I hope someone will be maybe helped through this info and maybe someone will discover what in Modafinil causes that effect of countering water retention on minoxidil. Hopefully we will be able to find it out and isolate it and it will finally resolve our problem with minoxidil.
Also it for some reason causes me to lose max 5 hair a day in the shower instead of 30. Just adding Armodafinil does that. No idea why - as in most people it purportedly increases hair loss/shedding. (While also being on fin, min 0.25 and RU)

So another week of my SAHM wife (dx-medicated) doing nothing Sun-Th with a "mental block" while I ended up committing about 14 hours to work a day and then spending about 1.5 hours picking up the house as well as possible so our kids (1/4) don't have to live in a pigsty. The whole time I am home she is staring at her phone and iPad simultaneously, which I am guessing happens all day 4-5 hours a day.
Well apparently this afternoon is the time of the week my spouse decides to hyperfocus on reorganizing the whole house while requiring me to help at every corner while I am trying to play with the kids as I've gotten home early today.
While obviously frustrated and being micromanaged I am constantly asked, "Why are you mad? What's your problem?" After a while I let her know that I am actually a bit frustrated at the situation while being as non-blaming as possible.
Of course, a meltdown full of projection ensues and I am told how bad of a person I am for blaming her mental illness for my problems, how garbage of a partner I am, and how much she "manages" her problems while I do nothing about mine. All while letting our oldest know to not go around me when I am throwing a fit. I wasn't even saying anything due to being talked over before getting a word out.
I seriously can not fathom how things get this way so quick when explaining how I feel. I ended up just walking away and going to a spot alone in the house for a while.
Any suggestions on how I could avoid situations like this? Or say things in a manner that doesn't set off an obvious RSD meltdown?
Or am I just doomed to living in a mild form of hell?
Thanks.